Baseball Is a Mental Grind Most People Never See
- Ben Carnes
- 4 days ago
- 5 min read
Baseball doesn’t usually look chaotic from the stands. There’s no shot clock. No constant motion. No visible panic. But anyone who has played the game knows the truth: baseball might be one of the most mentally demanding sports there is.

Every pitch is a test. Every at-bat carries the weight of failure. You can do everything right and still fail seven out of ten times. You can make one mistake in the field and then wait three innings for another chance to redeem yourself. And through it all, you’re expected to look calm, confident, and unaffected.
The hardest part? Most programs still train the physical side of the game relentlessly while leaving the mental side to chance. Confidence is assumed. Resilience is hoped for. Focus is demanded but rarely taught. In a sport defined by pressure, patience, and identity, that gap quietly determines who grows—and who spirals when things don’t go their way.
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Why the Mental Game Matters in Baseball
Baseball exposes athletes to failure more consistently than almost any other sport. A hitter can square up a ball perfectly and still make an out. A pitcher can execute the right pitch and watch it drop for a hit. Over the course of a long season, those moments pile up.
What makes it even harder is the space between action. There’s time to think between pitches. Time to replay the last mistake. Time to wonder if the slump is going to end. A shortstop might make one error in the second inning and then wait half the game for another ball to be hit their way. A hitter might strike out with runners on and then sit in the dugout for twenty minutes stewing on it.
Add in long travel days, academic pressure, expectations from coaches and teammates, and the question every athlete quietly wrestles with—“Who am I when I’m not playing well?”—and it becomes clear why the mental side of the game isn’t a bonus. It’s foundational.
Meet Tyler Rubasky: A Coach Shaped by the Mental Side of the Game
Tyler Rubasky didn’t arrive at his beliefs about mental training by accident. His perspective was shaped long before he became the head baseball coach at Anderson University. As a college player, Tyler dealt with an injury early in his career that sidelined him for nearly an entire season. Doctors struggled to identify the cause, leaving him with a difficult decision: walk away from the game or learn how to play through pain. That experience forced him to confront uncertainty, frustration, and identity much earlier than most athletes.

After transitioning from player to assistant coach and eventually into a head coaching role, those lessons stayed with him. Rather than chasing trends or hype, Tyler approaches mental training the same way he approaches everything else—intentionally, relationally, and grounded in real experience. For him, mental performance isn’t about slogans or speeches. It’s about helping players grow through adversity and prepare for the realities of the game.
Why College Baseball Players Struggle Mentally More Than Fans Realize
From the outside, college baseball can look controlled and routine. From the inside, it’s a grind that rarely lets up. Players are constantly evaluated—by coaches, teammates, opponents, and themselves. Slumps don’t just affect batting averages; they affect confidence, energy, and decision-making. When performance dips, athletes often internalize it as a personal failure rather than a normal part of the sport.
Tyler points out that what fans don’t see is the accumulation. One tough weekend turns into another. A missed opportunity starts to feel like a pattern. Without mental skills in place, players don’t just struggle physically—they spiral mentally. That spiral is often quiet, but it’s powerful enough to derail development if it goes unaddressed.
How Mental Training Helps Players Move On From Failure Faster
Failure in baseball is unavoidable. What is trainable is how quickly an athlete can reset.
One of the biggest differences Tyler has seen in players who commit to mental training is their ability to move on. Errors don’t linger as long. Bad swings don’t define the next at-bat. Players learn how to pause, breathe, refocus, and re-engage with the task in front of them.
That reset doesn’t just improve performance—it stabilizes confidence. Instead of riding emotional highs and lows, athletes become more consistent in how they show up. Over the course of a season, that consistency compounds into better preparation, better decision-making, and more trust within the team.
The Role Mental Performance Plays in Recruiting and Culture
Mental training doesn’t just impact games—it shapes programs.
As a head coach, Tyler looks beyond tools like exit velocity or velocity readings when evaluating recruits. He pays attention to how players respond after striking out, how they treat teammates after mistakes, and whether they bring energy to the dugout when things aren’t going their way.
When a program prioritizes mental performance, it sends a clear message: development isn’t just physical. That clarity helps attract athletes who value growth, accountability, and team culture. Over time, it creates an environment where players stay committed—even through coaching transitions or challenging seasons—because they feel invested in as people, not just performers.
Why Coaches Must Stay Even-Keeled in High-Pressure Moments
Mental training doesn’t stop with players. Coaches are part of the emotional environment whether they realize it or not.
Earlier in his career, Tyler admits he wore every moment on his sleeve. Wins brought visible excitement. Mistakes brought visible frustration. Through mental performance work, he’s learned the power of emotional consistency.
When coaches stay even-keeled, players feel safer taking risks. They recover faster from mistakes. They focus on execution instead of reaction. In tight moments, a calm presence from the dugout often does more than any speech ever could.
Mental Training Beyond Baseball: Preparing Athletes for Life
One of the most overlooked benefits of mental performance training is what happens after the final season ends.
Through structured reflection, goal-setting, and purpose-driven work, athletes begin to understand who they are beyond the scoreboard. They learn how to separate identity from performance, how to respond to adversity, and how to lead themselves under pressure. Those skills translate directly into life after baseball—careers, relationships, leadership roles, and moments of uncertainty. The goal isn’t just better players. It’s more resilient, grounded people who know how to handle challenge with intention.
Actionable Takeaways for Coaches
Build mental resets into daily practice, not just games
Talk openly about failure as part of development
Watch how recruits respond to adversity, not just success
Model calm and composure in high-pressure moments
Give players language and tools to refocus between reps
Reinforce identity beyond performance
Treat mental training as a skill, not a personality trait
Listen to the Full Conversation
This article only scratches the surface of the insights shared in the full conversation with Tyler Rubasky in Episode #147 on The Coaching Minds Podcast. Hearing these ideas unpacked through real stories and lived experience adds valuable depth for coaches and athletes alike.
The Mental Side of the Game Is No Longer Optional
Baseball will always demand skill, strength, and repetition. But at every level of the game, it’s the mental side that determines who grows through failure and who gets stuck in it.
Programs that intentionally train confidence, focus, and resilience aren’t gaining an edge—they’re closing a gap that’s existed for too long. The future of baseball belongs to athletes and coaches who understand that performance starts long before the first pitch, and identity must be built on more than the box score.




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